Locked Doc

The Switch is Back

While I have been primarily focusing on my submissive side, I have always had a Dominant streak, which I thought was in deep hibernation. I used to describe myself as a Dom with a submissive side, then a switch, and recently primarily a submissive, because that is where my headspace is and needs to be.Continue reading “The Switch is Back”

Brotherhood

I had a great weekend (mostly). I got to hang out with some of my oldest friends and make some new ones. I was able to spend time with my bkf’s (best kink friends) who I have known for *gasp* 25 years and got to meet some new ones. What struck me most, however, wasContinue reading “Brotherhood”

Foster Care

After last week’s unbelievable turn of events, I’ve been amazingly lucky to have had an outpouring of support from friends, new and old. I can’t express how grateful I am and how much love I feel. I’m not feeling great about myself, but I’m working on it. I don’t mean only emotionally, though there haveContinue reading “Foster Care”

And Just Like That

I’m not talking about the Sex and the City reboot (for fuck’s sake, just call 911 Carrie), but rather the turn of events that happened last week. I think I have whiplash. Never in my life has something changed so radically in 24 hours. In fact, it happened 24 hours after my last post. IContinue reading “And Just Like That”

Feels like the First Time

I was awake for several hours the other night. Trip was sleeping soundly next to me. My cage was incredibly tight, my horniness level was at 11, and I found my hand mindlessly stroking the titanium dick in a fruitless effort to relive the feelings of pleasure my pre-locked self so easily could. It wasn’tContinue reading “Feels like the First Time”

Busted

I’ve never worn my Steelwerks through TSA before. I always assumed, despite it being titanium, that airport metal detectors might detect it. That’s their purpose after all. I have worn it with no problems through non-TSA detectors, such as those found at ballparks and theme parks. They generally aren’t set to be too sensitive asContinue reading “Busted”

Krakatoa

I’ve really been enjoying co-hosting the Chastity Chat Twitter space with @thumpermn (other than I realize my voice is far less Barry White and far more eerily close to The Nanny when I hear the recording). We’ve discussed a number of topics and the insights of some of the participants always makes me think moreContinue reading “Krakatoa”

What’s In a Word?

Boy, pig, slave. I’ve been all of them. What is the difference? Or is there a distinction without a difference? Is it just power exchange in a bdsm relationship by another name? Yes, and no. Just like with chastity, there is no one right way to have a D/s relationship. Your dynamic as a subContinue reading “What’s In a Word?”

24 Hours in a Kink3Ddesigns Cobra

I’ve seen this cage all over Twitter. Seems like everyone has one. I’m not typically a device reviewer, and I didn’t get this cage to review, per se, but I did get one. I was talking with Chris, owner of Steelwerks, about a number of things. He recently made me a low profile, front lockingContinue reading “24 Hours in a Kink3Ddesigns Cobra”

Too Fast/Too Slow

I met a man. No, that’s not quite true. I met a man I want to serve and to give my cock and my key to. I think I found my Sir. After weeks of talking and texting, we spent time together, and since then we’ve talked every day. He’s in my head and inContinue reading “Too Fast/Too Slow”