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Meditations for the chastity submissive

Amazing post by @thumperMN. He really gets it. Follow him if you don’t already Being a man kept in chastity isn’t something you just do. I mean, sure, you can just do it. Order a device on the interwebs and lock it on yourself … Meditations for the chastity submissive

Wrong

I’ve been unlocked more time this past month than I have for the past year. I’ve had an exam with a general surgeon, a pre-op exam with my GP, surgery, and a post op exam so far, all of which required me to unlock, and I have absolutely hated every minute of it. There wasContinue reading “Wrong”

Maybe, Finally

I finally met my Sir. We met in LA last weekend. I was up visiting friends. I was nervous to say the least. Sir describes himself as a demisexual, which I had to google: Okay, I think I understand. I’m not that way, but if I’ve learned anything in the last 56 years around theContinue reading “Maybe, Finally”

I Know Why The Caged Boy Sings

Co-hosting our Chastity Chat space with @thumpermn (and his insightful questions) has really made me deeply ponder why, when I saw my first cage, I knew it was meant for me and why I’ve always wanted to be locked as a submissive, or rather why I have always only submitted to men who want meContinue reading “I Know Why The Caged Boy Sings”

Butt Plugery 101. Tips and tricks for long term plugging

I’ve had numerous requests for some tips on carrying a plug long term, as I’ve spent a good deal of time plugged for 12 hours or longer. Being plugged is an amazing experience. Feeling the fullness and the weight and the constant shifting movements in your ass as you go about your day with noContinue reading “Butt Plugery 101. Tips and tricks for long term plugging”

Learning to see the Grey

Below is a guest post from @cagedrangerguy, a man I connected with in a moment of crisis during the pandemic. Like so may of us, the loneliness was soul crushing. As problematic as social media is, it does allow kindred souls who might otherwise never meet to form a connection. I, for one, am soContinue reading “Learning to see the Grey”

How to Own A Permanently Locked Sub: Second Semester

Wow, the original post took off like a rocket, and the feedback has been amazing. I didn’t realize how many subs and Doms are in a similar situation. There really is zero information about taking on someone in long term/permanent chastity. Everything out there is basically all about incorporating chastity play and spicing up yourContinue reading “How to Own A Permanently Locked Sub: Second Semester”

How to Own a Permanently Locked Sub

Note: my friend @thumpermn pointed out some significant similarities to a previous post he wrote. He has been a major influence in my life, so I want to give him full credit. It was not intentional, and I came to this from a different perspective and a recent experience, but yeah, he definitely deserves fullContinue reading “How to Own a Permanently Locked Sub”

Maybe….

I’ve been talking with someone. Someone who gets what is going on in my kink brain and who wants pretty much the same things, from the Top side. Someone who is as excited about me being locked as I am, who wants to keep me locked away, and who encourages and desires it as muchContinue reading “Maybe….”

Love at First Sight

I just listened to Thumper’s podcast. I admit I’m a bit of a stan, but mostly because he’s been such an inspiration to me. Some of the questions they asked him I would have answered quite differently, but when he talked about first seeing a cage, I knew exactly what he meant. I think thoseContinue reading “Love at First Sight”