Locked Doc

Feels like the First Time

I was awake for several hours the other night. Trip was sleeping soundly next to me. My cage was incredibly tight, my horniness level was at 11, and I found my hand mindlessly stroking the titanium dick in a fruitless effort to relive the feelings of pleasure my pre-locked self so easily could. It wasn’tContinue reading “Feels like the First Time”

Busted

I’ve never worn my Steelwerks through TSA before. I always assumed, despite it being titanium, that airport metal detectors might detect it. That’s their purpose after all. I have worn it with no problems through non-TSA detectors, such as those found at ballparks and theme parks. They generally aren’t set to be too sensitive asContinue reading “Busted”

Krakatoa

I’ve really been enjoying co-hosting the Chastity Chat Twitter space with @thumpermn (other than I realize my voice is far less Barry White and far more eerily close to The Nanny when I hear the recording). We’ve discussed a number of topics and the insights of some of the participants always makes me think moreContinue reading “Krakatoa”

What’s In a Word?

Boy, pig, slave. I’ve been all of them. What is the difference? Or is there a distinction without a difference? Is it just power exchange in a bdsm relationship by another name? Yes, and no. Just like with chastity, there is no one right way to have a D/s relationship. Your dynamic as a subContinue reading “What’s In a Word?”

24 Hours in a Kink3Ddesigns Cobra

I’ve seen this cage all over Twitter. Seems like everyone has one. I’m not typically a device reviewer, and I didn’t get this cage to review, per se, but I did get one. I was talking with Chris, owner of Steelwerks, about a number of things. He recently made me a low profile, front lockingContinue reading “24 Hours in a Kink3Ddesigns Cobra”

Too Fast/Too Slow

I met a man. No, that’s not quite true. I met a man I want to serve and to give my cock and my key to. I think I found my Sir. After weeks of talking and texting, we spent time together, and since then we’ve talked every day. He’s in my head and inContinue reading “Too Fast/Too Slow”

Meditations for the chastity submissive

Amazing post by @thumperMN. He really gets it. Follow him if you don’t already Being a man kept in chastity isn’t something you just do. I mean, sure, you can just do it. Order a device on the interwebs and lock it on yourself … Meditations for the chastity submissive

Wrong

I’ve been unlocked more time this past month than I have for the past year. I’ve had an exam with a general surgeon, a pre-op exam with my GP, surgery, and a post op exam so far, all of which required me to unlock, and I have absolutely hated every minute of it. There wasContinue reading “Wrong”

Maybe, Finally

I finally met my Sir. We met in LA last weekend. I was up visiting friends. I was nervous to say the least. Sir describes himself as a demisexual, which I had to google: Okay, I think I understand. I’m not that way, but if I’ve learned anything in the last 56 years around theContinue reading “Maybe, Finally”

I Know Why The Caged Boy Sings

Co-hosting our Chastity Chat space with @thumpermn (and his insightful questions) has really made me deeply ponder why, when I saw my first cage, I knew it was meant for me and why I’ve always wanted to be locked as a submissive, or rather why I have always only submitted to men who want meContinue reading “I Know Why The Caged Boy Sings”