Note: my friend @thumpermn pointed out some significant similarities to a previous post he wrote. He has been a major influence in my life, so I want to give him full credit. It was not intentional, and I came to this from a different perspective and a recent experience, but …
I’ve been talking with someone. Someone who gets what is going on in my kink brain and who wants pretty much the same things, from the Top side. Someone who is as excited about me being locked as I am, who wants to keep me locked away, and who encourages …
I just listened to Thumper’s podcast. I admit I’m a bit of a stan, but mostly because he’s been such an inspiration to me. Some of the questions they asked him I would have answered quite differently, but when he talked about first seeing a cage, I knew exactly what …
I have a fuck buddy. We’re just friends with occasional benefits. He has a nice cock, and I need to be fucked, so every so often, when the stars align, we hook up. We catch up, maybe have a cocktail or three, and then he usually spends 15-20 minutes pounding …
I know my moods swing like crazy, and my desires have serious highs and lows. Right now, I’m definitely in a high kink mode, and I think it’s mainly because I’m finally embracing my inner nature, that of a faggot. Its been an almost 3.5 year journey from Dom Top …
I couldn’t sleep last night. Even after 20 minutes of pounding my pussy and draining my prostate, I was still hungry and the cage was still at maximal pressure. Laying in bed, I just tossed and turned. Having four pounds of metal plug in my ass probably didn’t help, but …
The title of this post came to me tonight when I realized it had several meanings. Something happened that seemed so ordinary to me that I didn’t give it a second thought, until I did, and then I gave it quite a lot of thought. As you know, my kink …
Marsupials for the win! Turns out, they had the answer all along. Let me explain. Back when I started chastity (in the Stone Age of the 20th century), you had a choice of 3 basic underwear styles: tighty whiteys, boxer, and banana hammocks (bikini). None of these styles work for …
Well, it’s now 2022, so I guess it’s time for a review of 2021, from the perspective of a locked man, naturally. I’ve been locked continuously for 1221 days. In all of 2021, I spent less than 12 hours unlocked. I was unlocked for my colonoscopy (oh, joy). I had …
I used to think I was a freak. Kinky, yes, but I knew a lot of kink folks. But being locked? I was the only person I knew who was into that, at least back when I started. Clearly, with social media, my feed is filled chock a block with …
I do get some comments on my little blog now and again. Most of them are sweet or funny, some less so. I usually don’t respond more than a “like” or a hopefully witty one liner. I got a response recently that has bothered me, and at first I just …
You all remember my last flight saga? The one where WN (Southwest) left us stranded on the aircraft on the tarmac for hours. The one where my “quick” 39 minute flight turned into a 4 hour extravaganza of pain? The one where I vowed not to fly WN again until …
