I just listened to Thumper’s podcast. I admit I’m a bit of a stan, but mostly because he’s been such an inspiration to me. Some of the questions they asked him I would have answered quite differently, but when he talked about first seeing a cage, I knew exactly what he meant.
I think those of us who are meant to be locked, at some deep level, know it. And when we see a cage we are meant to be in, the response is visceral. We know it’s right for us. We know we NEED it. It’s a “where have you been all my life” moment.
Thumper started down this road a bit later than I did, so luckily for him, he missed the earliest cages, which I was unlucky enough to suffer through. He started with a cb6000, I started with a 2000, which was, to be honest, complete crap. But we both knew that we needed to be caged. Luckily, cage technology evolved over the years, and I have to credit the internet for the explosion of interest in cages. For so many years, I thought I was alone in my desires. Now, it seems everyone is locked.
I’ve had probably 20 cages over the years. Some, which are quite popular mass market cages, just don’t work for me. I’ve got enormous balls. I’m not bragging, it’s just a fact, and most off the shelf mass market cages just do not fit me. For example, the popular HT is an absolute torture device for me. It wasn’t until I went bespoke that I finally achieved my desire: to be locked 24/7/365. I have two cages that fit that desire (and my anatomy). A 3D printed Evotion cage, and of course, my Steelwerks. I haven’t tried a cobra, but since they don’t have an integrated PA lock, they don’t really interest me, to be honest. They look amazing and I love that so very many men are locking themselves in one, but if it doesn’t have a PA lock, you can just pull out and cheat. Some folks say chastity is 99% mental. Not for me. I need a device I am absolutely secure in. I’ll cheat, to be honest, especially when my horny level hits 11. I need a device that doesn’t allow that.
Luckily, I already had a PA. I love piercings. My nips and my cock are pierced. It just came in handy when cages that use piercings for security came along. I was already pierced and ready. Coincidence? I think not. I want to be denied, and I don’t want to even have the option of somehow getting to my flesh cock, because it still has power over me, as much as I wish it didn’t.
The other area where I found an interesting difference is that Thumps still mainly orgasms (when allowed) from penile stimulation,. I’ve had many caged orgasms from anal, nip, or ball play. For me, the loss of my cock has rewired me to get that stimulation from elsewhere. While I prefer not to cum, when I do, it’s usually because I’m so turned on by other areas of my anatomy. In fact, I’ve had the most intense orgasms of my life caged.
I just find it fascinating what drives men to be locked, and how wonderfully unique our experiences are. That’s what makes the world go around (well, that and the warping of space-time by mass)