Tuesday, Feb 20th, will mark 2000 days locked. I can’t believe when I started this journey that it would lead to being essentially permanently locked for the past 5 plus years. I never intended to be locked permanently. I started playing with chastity occasionally a long time ago, and I spent maybe a day or three locked at a time. That all changed in 2018, when I started long term lockups. Funny thing is, while my first longer lock up was supposed to be for a week or two, the cage never came off. I just knew it was right for me and how I was meant to be. I guess the fact that I got a raging hard on the first time I saw a cage was a good sign. It was a revelation living in a cock cage and one I never wanted to see stop, so I didn’t. I might have pushed too much in the beginning. There were many sleepless nights as my body got used to the device, and more than once there were some injuries from the (relatively) inexpensive devices I was locked in. But I knew it was for me and I knew it was a good investment, so I got my first of several Steelwerks cages. I don’t know how I managed to stay locked pre-werks. Other than my Kink3D cage which I use for travel (when airport security is involved), I’m always #lockedinwerks.
I love seeing other men on their chastity journeys. I like hearing their stories and watching their evolution. I think being caged is pretty much a love it or leave it thing. Most guys who start either stop (or maybe just incorporate it in their kink play from time to time), but some guys just know they need/want to be locked. To be honest, when I see guys celebrating 2 weeks locked, my first thought is “amateur”. But, we all have to start somewhere and I’m rooting for them and hope they find the satisfaction that I have. I vividly remember the first time I was locked, the first night I spent locked, the first time at work locked, and every other milestone.
You might think, like anything that goes on and on, it might get boring. Chastity can be a very lonely experience if you don’t have someone to share it with. In fact, it can be quite isolating. I have a group of locked friends (I swear there’s something in the water here) and I have a Master who probably enjoys me being locked more than I do. My friends are a source of support and solace, and we get to share war stories and advice, and my Master is a source of motivation and eroticism that makes it just keep getting better and better. When He teases His contents in His cage, it drives me wild, and when He makes me cum (and allows me to cum) hands free, the orgasms are INTENSE. Honestly, sometimes I think I can shoot just looking at Him.
My Master has no interest in ever unlocking me, and no intention of ever doing so. The way he incorporates this kink in our play is always surprising and damn hot for me. I can’t tell you how often the cage is incredibly tight (a lot).
2000 days is just a number (but a nice round big one) and I am proud and pleased to have achieved it, but there will be bigger numbers in the future. It’s not like I’m getting unlocked, ever, and that’s just how I want it.
-Doc
I love, love, LOVE hearing about your chastity experience, and how you are so eloquent in your words…it might entice others to stick their toe in “that water”! Your comment about being solo hits the mark squarely; I love chastity, but it would be so very much better if there were someone else nearby helping me enjoy that journey. Again, thank you for the excellent blog!
Thank you. And thank you for reading!
“2000 days is just a number (but a nice round big one) and I am proud and pleased to have achieved it, but there will be bigger numbers in the future. It’s not like I’m getting unlocked, ever, and that’s just how I want it.”
Every day is a new record! 😉