Just a random late night thought that occurred whilst scrolling through my Twitter feed, which is 90% chastity porn: You’d think that being locked would end penis contests. After all, being locked is about denial. The penis should take a back seat. For me, it’s about giving up control, use, and ownership of said penis.Continue reading “Size Queens”
Category Archives: Random thoughts
Butt Plugery 101. Tips and tricks for long term plugging
I’ve had numerous requests for some tips on carrying a plug long term, as I’ve spent a good deal of time plugged for 12 hours or longer. Being plugged is an amazing experience. Feeling the fullness and the weight and the constant shifting movements in your ass as you go about your day with noContinue reading “Butt Plugery 101. Tips and tricks for long term plugging”
Wtf?
Warning, I’m going to rant. I’m going to go off on certain guys who need to grow the fuck up. Who, might you ask? Anyone who still says Str8-acting in their online profile, that’s who. When I was a young lad just coming out, it was tough for gay folks unless you were in aContinue reading “Wtf?”
Why Things Are
Welcome to another episode of “fun facts”. As I am nearing my third run-in with airline travel in the last couple of months, the question came to mind as to why aircraft are boarded from the left hand side. One of the things I love, besides gear, cages, and bdsm, is historical trivia, and I’mContinue reading “Why Things Are”
Mystical Semen
What is it about cum that is so inherently fascinating to me? Why do I crave it so much? There’s something magical about it, something I can’t define. I’m not talking about my own cum, which while associated with many pleasurable events, isn’t any more exciting to me than my spit. I’m talking about Sir’sContinue reading “Mystical Semen”
A Means or an End?
Over on my second favorite blog, DenyingThumper, the rabbit has been stewing a bit lately about how locked men see their cages. He’s also been polling on Twitter, between posts about his now size 32 waist (skinny bitch). The results have been fascinating, though I admit that some of the possible “answers” didn’t really fitContinue reading “A Means or an End?”
Bait and Switch
Fair warning: This post has nothing to do with masturbation or my switchiness. It does have a fair bit of bdsm in it though, although this particular form involves the oral cavity and the practitioner of said s/m is in fact, my dentist. Let me start out by saying I love my dentist in general.Continue reading “Bait and Switch”
Malebag
I’ve been discussing ball stretchers with @SouthernSwitch lately. He spent a day recently in his Steelwerks ball cuff and we had a lively discussion (and obligatory pics). As I may have mentioned, I’m rather a fan of cbt in general and ball play in particular, and I am rather fond of a stretcher. My ballsContinue reading “Malebag”
That Empty Feeling
What I really miss most is that morning text instructing me what size plug I was to carry that day. Sir had me plugged 5 days a week, and each morning He would sent a cryptic little text indicating His preference. Usually it was “XL” or “XXL”, and every so often, the dreaded “XXXL”. IfContinue reading “That Empty Feeling”
Life Begins Next Month
So, February 8th is my appointment for my second Moderna vaccine dose. It will take 2 weeks after that for full protection. I’m not going to run out in public without a mask or a have a big party, but I am going to finally stop feeling the existential dread I have been feeling forContinue reading “Life Begins Next Month”
The Locked Doc 