community – The Locked Doc

Six Degrees of Drew

I’ve been a kinkster since before I knew what sex was. I’ve had kink relationships and friendships most of my adult life (once I got over the shame of being not only kinky, but gay, which was a real struggle for me). I lost most of my original tribe to HIV in the 90’s. ButContinue reading “Six Degrees of Drew”

Pronoun Trouble

Anyone else going a little stir crazy? My quarantined mind wanders off and contemplates strange things sometimes, and so I write them down. If I had a blog, I’d share them…oh wait, I do!! At the risk of sounding like the old guy who yells at kids to get off his lawn, I don’t understandContinue reading “Pronoun Trouble”

Feedback

I’ve had some interesting comments regarding yesterday’s post about community. None of the comments were derogatory, and I appreciate that anyone even read it and took the time to point out their disagreement. One person told me I was being too tribal because “they” are trying to kill us. I assume by “they”, he meansContinue reading “Feedback”

LGBTQrstuvwxyz

I’m probably going to get flamed for this, but I don’t get this whole alphabet of a group I’m supposed to be a member of. It’s referred to as my community, but is it really? When I was young, we were gay and lesbian. I still wonder why that distinction was made, because aren’t lesbiansContinue reading “LGBTQrstuvwxyz”