There’s something to be said for normalizing kink so much that you almost forget it’s kink. Even so, every now and then I get overwhelmed from the feeling that kink has become such a normal part of my existence. Usually, I go about my day, but once in a while I realize I am locked,Continue reading “My Private Kink”
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Call Me By My Name
If someone calls me a bitch, pussy, cunt, or fag, I’m coming for them. If Sir does it, I just come. It’s funny the different reactions the same words cause depending on the situation. When I’m in sub space, I am that fag, cunt, or pussy. Hearing Sir call me that just reinforces our powerContinue reading “Call Me By My Name”
Thrupling
A long, long time ago, I was in a thruple ( I just learned that word from Netflix). I think I was 23 or 24 years old. I met James and Danny at Woody’s in Philly on a Sunday afternoon. James cruised me all afternoon and we talked and flirted a bit. He asked meContinue reading “Thrupling”
No Pain, No Gain
If you could change one thing about your body, what would it be? I’ve thought about that, and I think I know the answer. There are a lot of options. Would I want a bigger dick? Sure, I’d love to have a porn star dick, but since it’s locked away, there seems little point inContinue reading “No Pain, No Gain”
Bi the Way…
I was at a pan-sexual leather bdsm event a few years ago with Sir. He was giving a class on cock and ball torture and I was his demonstration object. He went over a number of techniques and culminated the class by giving out leather laces for people to practice tying up balls (mostly mine).Continue reading “Bi the Way…”
Electrosex
I love electrosex. It’s one of my favorite kinks. I have a nice set up that I’ve used many times on boys (it’s got a remote control and everything!!). I also love having it used on me. Luckily, my Master is quite fond of it as well. He has a very fancy set up. TheContinue reading “Electrosex”
I’m calling Shenanigans
I read an article about the rise of the leather scene. The author claimed that gay men began wearing leather gear because it was “hyper-masculine” and a response to the view that gay men were effeminate. It argued it arose from motorcycle gangs and was meant to intimidate. Bullshit. It’s arguably masculine, but I don’tContinue reading “I’m calling Shenanigans”
New Boots
I’ve always wanted a pair of Paul Bond cowboy boots. I think they’re stunning, but they’re also expensive. I’ve looked at them and drooled over them for years. For whatever reason, the fates aligned and I happened to look on eBay and there they were; brand new, exactly as I would have designed them, myContinue reading “New Boots”
Coming Out Caged
I’ve come out twice in my life. First, as a gay man, and second as a caged one. Both felt very much the same. I dealt with the same fear of rejection both times. I had the same fears that those I love would not love me anymore. I had the same sense of reliefContinue reading “Coming Out Caged”
Kinky Secrets
Many people have secret kinks. Twitter is full of pics of guys wearing panties or diapers under their suits. Mine are my cage and butt plugs. I go to the store or the gym or the office that way. I have two men who make sure I stay that way. Sometimes, as I go aboutContinue reading “Kinky Secrets”
