I was at a pan-sexual leather bdsm event a few years ago with Sir. He was giving a class on cock and ball torture and I was his demonstration object. He went over a number of techniques and culminated the class by giving out leather laces for people to practice tying up balls (mostly mine).Continue reading “Bi the Way…”
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Electrosex
I love electrosex. It’s one of my favorite kinks. I have a nice set up that I’ve used many times on boys (it’s got a remote control and everything!!). I also love having it used on me. Luckily, my Master is quite fond of it as well. He has a very fancy set up. TheContinue reading “Electrosex”
I’m calling Shenanigans
I read an article about the rise of the leather scene. The author claimed that gay men began wearing leather gear because it was “hyper-masculine” and a response to the view that gay men were effeminate. It argued it arose from motorcycle gangs and was meant to intimidate. Bullshit. It’s arguably masculine, but I don’tContinue reading “I’m calling Shenanigans”
New Boots
I’ve always wanted a pair of Paul Bond cowboy boots. I think they’re stunning, but they’re also expensive. I’ve looked at them and drooled over them for years. For whatever reason, the fates aligned and I happened to look on eBay and there they were; brand new, exactly as I would have designed them, myContinue reading “New Boots”
Coming Out Caged
I’ve come out twice in my life. First, as a gay man, and second as a caged one. Both felt very much the same. I dealt with the same fear of rejection both times. I had the same fears that those I love would not love me anymore. I had the same sense of reliefContinue reading “Coming Out Caged”
Kinky Secrets
Many people have secret kinks. Twitter is full of pics of guys wearing panties or diapers under their suits. Mine are my cage and butt plugs. I go to the store or the gym or the office that way. I have two men who make sure I stay that way. Sometimes, as I go aboutContinue reading “Kinky Secrets”
It’s all good
Tripp and I were laying perpendicularly on the bed. For those geometrically challenged, I was lying lengthwise and he was lying widthwise at the foot of the bed. I was also very horny (so unusual for me, I know). I started rubbing my foot against him. “I know you’re randy (his words, he lived inContinue reading “It’s all good”
Boxes 2.0
I had an astounding response to my post about how I am trying to break out of the boxes I created, and that got me wondering how I got there in the first place and why it took me so long to get out. I’m also wondering why it resonated so deeply with my readers.Continue reading “Boxes 2.0”
Boxes
I love my relationship with my husband. Overall, I think we have a great one. Our relationship suffered for a few years as our sex life went to nil, but that was a symptom and not a cause. We’re having a lot of sex again, but that’s not why the relationship is better. We’re betterContinue reading “Boxes”
Gear and Shame
#gear365 is a movement for those with gear fetishes to bring them out in the open, to remove the stigma, and to be proud of who they are. I’ve had several major fetishes for most of my life, but boots are my biggest. (Tall boots, the taller the better, like the ad above, which droveContinue reading “Gear and Shame”
