Conundrums

The two weeks I spent locked down tight in the Schandemask has got me a little bewildered. Let me explain. I’m still sorting out the feelings I’m having, so I apologize if I ramble. Those two weeks of (relative) suffering brought me back to an earlier time in my chastity adventure. Back to before werks.Continue reading “Conundrums”

Disciplinary Action

I never intended to be locked in a Steelwerks Schandemask. I knew about them. I know a few people who own one, but the idea of me having one was not on my radar, not even remotely. I purposely don’t use the word own, because while I might have bought them, my cages, like myContinue reading “Disciplinary Action”

4 Years and Counting

Last week marked 4 years of being “permanently” locked. Time really does fly. My chastity adventure started (gulp) 30 years ago. I was locked on occasion and I locked several boys. I played on and off with it for a long time, until my former Sir wanted me locked and I asked Trip, to whichContinue reading “4 Years and Counting”

A Year in Review

Well, it’s now 2022, so I guess it’s time for a review of 2021, from the perspective of a locked man, naturally. I’ve been locked continuously for 1221 days. In all of 2021, I spent less than 12 hours unlocked. I was unlocked for my colonoscopy (oh, joy). I had a few flights at theContinue reading “A Year in Review”

The Agony and The Ecstasy

I woke up early this morning in some discomfort. It’s not an uncommon occurrence. My often hours long “morning wood” causes me some pain from the base ring pressing into my expanded flesh. I’ve grown used to it, but there are mornings like this morning where it’s particularly unpleasant. It’s just one of the thingsContinue reading “The Agony and The Ecstasy”

Six Degrees of Drew

I’ve been a kinkster since before I knew what sex was. I’ve had kink relationships and friendships most of my adult life (once I got over the shame of being not only kinky, but gay, which was a real struggle for me). I lost most of my original tribe to HIV in the 90’s. ButContinue reading “Six Degrees of Drew”