Another Milestone

Tuesday, Feb 20th, will mark 2000 days locked. I can’t believe when I started this journey that it would lead to being essentially permanently locked for the past 5 plus years. I never intended to be locked permanently. I started playing with chastity occasionally a long time ago, and I …

Goldilocks Zone

There’s a fine line between snug, too tight, or too loose when it comes to base rings for your chastity device. And, of course, your body changes over time. The past few months I’ve been having more issues than typical. I was waking up several times a night with very …

Are You In?

Locktober is just around the corner. My 5+ year journey in chastity started with Locktober. I had been locked on and off and thought it would be great to participate in the then new “Locktober” sweeping gay Twitter. I figured I’d be locked at least through then end of the …

The Sweet Spot

I woke up this morning, as I often do, with a very tight cage. Even locked men still get morning wood, or in this case, morning titanium. Sometimes, it’s excruciating. I’ve been “hard” probably for quite some time and am awakened by pain in my sac from the constant clamping …

And Just Like That

Don’t worry. I’m not posting about that show. You know, the one we are all hate watching. At least, I am. Nope, I’m going to post about the fact that as of last week, I’ve been locked for 5 years. I didn’t start out with permanent chastity in mind. For …

Purgatory

7 days. 7 fucking days unlocked. 7 days of feeling wrong. 7 days of, if not quite being in hell, then being hell-adjacent. As you may recall, I was wounded by the Kink3D designs cage. I’m not blaming their product. I’m blaming myself, completely. Ever since I had to unlock, …

Don’t be Like Me

I’m currently unlocked. I have no one to blame but myself. My intense need to stay locked has forced me to be unlocked. The irony is not lost on me. You’d think I’d know better by now. I used to travel a lot for business, but as with most things, …

Conundrums

The two weeks I spent locked down tight in the Schandemask has got me a little bewildered. Let me explain. I’m still sorting out the feelings I’m having, so I apologize if I ramble. Those two weeks of (relative) suffering brought me back to an earlier time in my chastity …

Disciplinary Action

I never intended to be locked in a Steelwerks Schandemask. I knew about them. I know a few people who own one, but the idea of me having one was not on my radar, not even remotely. I purposely don’t use the word own, because while I might have bought …

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