The Deal

Tripp and I have been going back and forth on the subject of my orgasms. Seriously, only in a chastity relationship do the words “would you please stop letting me come” get uttered. Tripp likes to see me come, which I suppose is great in a “normal” relationship. I would prefer to be denied. It’sContinue reading “The Deal”

The Rules

I have rules now. When we started chastity, it was quite new to Tripp. As it became clear this was not a phase, and that we both liked what it was doing for us, I suggested that he might want to set down some ground rules. I’ve been the Dominant partner in our relationship sinceContinue reading “The Rules”

Maybe Next Year

My penis has not been used since 2018. I’ve not been unlocked for more than a brief period in well more than a year. The last time it was used I had set up the sling. Tripp had been feeling pretty good that entire week and I wanted to play in his ass and makeContinue reading “Maybe Next Year”

Tripp Speaks

Did I mention Tripp reads my blog? Tripp reads my blog. Tripp read my post yesterday and decided he had a few things to say about it. It’s a good thing for Doc that he told me in person before he posted anything. I’d have been upset to find out what he was feeling aboutContinue reading “Tripp Speaks”

Doc’s Chastity Tips for the Long Term Locked

There are many websites and blogs that offer a variety of tips for male members of the species Genitalus Incarceratus. Having said that, I have a few tips that I haven’t come across elsewhere, or at least all in one spot, that I have found very helpful in my long term lockage. So, I thoughtContinue reading “Doc’s Chastity Tips for the Long Term Locked”

Tripp and the Whip

My first flogging happened more than 30 years ago. My first flogging from Tripp (since Sir taught him how) just happened and I’m still high from it. Tripp turned the Dom level to 11 today, and I think I am more madly in love with him than ever. I came home at my usual timeContinue reading “Tripp and the Whip”

500 days

On the day I am writing this, my cock will have been locked for a little more than 500 days. It’s probably been out of its prison for less than a cumulative 48 hours in that time (airport security , I get waxed down there, and I have an annual physical). But, holy shit, myContinue reading “500 days”

Designing Men

My first chastity device was a cb2000 that I bought some 20 odd years ago. It was a complicated bit of plastic with hinges, spacers, posts, etc. The first time I slept in it, my nocturnal erection split the seam on the device, I tossed it out the next day. When “the Curve” came out,Continue reading “Designing Men”