Another Anniversary of a Sort

2 years ago next month, Tripp and I were in Lisbon. I had just received my first metal cage (a Steelworxx) before we left. I’d been living in plastic up until that point. I wore the plastic on the flight over and put on the new cage when we arrived. All seemed well that evening.Continue reading “Another Anniversary of a Sort”

You Gotta Do What You Gotta Do

After a couple of weeks of zero, the horniness is coming back. This time it wasn’t Covid related, but vaccine induced. Every year for the last 25 years, I’ve gotten an influenza shot. I actually got influenza in the mid-90’s, and let me tell you, while I was a healthy 30 year old, I don’tContinue reading “You Gotta Do What You Gotta Do”

My Private Kink

There’s something to be said for normalizing kink so much that you almost forget it’s kink. Even so, every now and then I get overwhelmed from the feeling that kink has become such a normal part of my existence. Usually, I go about my day, but once in a while I realize I am locked,Continue reading “My Private Kink”

The Edge of Glory

The longer I’m denied orgasm, the faster I seem to get to the edge. Lately, it’s been happening quite quickly. Usually, it takes a fair bit of work to get me there, but now it happens almost instantaneously (almost). The edge is the reason I don’t want to come. People ask me why I’m soContinue reading “The Edge of Glory”

Ode to Joy

I wanted you before I knew what you were. Then one day, I saw you, a primitive you, on the internet Ungainly, uncomfortable, complicated you appeared on my screen You had different names; cb, seedpod, keeper. You had different appearances, but they were all you. I was mad with desire for you, and afraid ofContinue reading “Ode to Joy”

Turning Points

We’ve been slowly, inexorably heading towards what recently happened between Tripp and I. Even though it happened quite suddenly, every turning point has a series of events that lead to it. I’ve been locked almost 2 years, but it somehow seems new, because the dynamic has changed. I have the same feelings as I didContinue reading “Turning Points”

What Happened to Tripp?

Who kidnapped my husband and replaced him with a Dom? I’d like to thank them. Last night was a huge leap forward for chaste-kind. We started to have sex Wednesday afternoon. Tripp was beating my balls and I was, as usual, incredibly aroused, but we got interrupted. We were supposed to pick back up laterContinue reading “What Happened to Tripp?”

Common Ground

I’ve been talking and texting with a friend (@jockdgear on Twitter) who is new to long term chastity. He’s a hard core kinkster, and he’s been in cages before, but I think he’s locked far more men than he’s been locked by. In fact, I think this is the first time he’s been locked byContinue reading “Common Ground”

One of Those Days

There are days when being locked is almost agonizing. There are days when all I can think about is the feeling of a warm mouth on my uncaged cock, or of driving my hard dick into a tight ass and pounding it until I come, feeling my seed shoot into that inviting hole. My cockContinue reading “One of Those Days”