One of my Twitter followers pointed out that I’m not collared in my blog cover pic. “Aren’t you in a steel collar?” he asked. Yes, I usually am. I picked that photo because I liked it, and other than not having my collar on at that moment, I think it represents me well. I feel sexy and powerful in leather. Also, as Tripp decides what collar I wear, I was being put into a leather collar that day and I took the photo as I was getting ready.
So, I thought I’d share with you a couple of photos of me collared, one a photo taken that day with my leather collar on, the other in my normal steel collar. They’re not nicely staged, just (not very good) selfies.
I wear leather a lot nowadays. I’m a leatherman at heart and I try and wear it often. It’s one of the ways I’m dealing with years of shame about my kinks and reclaim it in a positive way. I want it to feel normal, so I try and make it my normal dress as often as possible. If you want to see me in my cage, you can see it here. Standard NSFW warning.
I know I’m not the buff-est, sexiest guy on the planet and these aren’t the best pics, but I don’t have many of myself. Eventually, I’ll get a better pic for the cover. I just hate having my picture taken unless I’m bound and gagged 😇.