One of my Twitter followers pointed out that I’m not collared in my blog cover pic. “Aren’t you in a steel collar?” he asked. Yes, I usually am. I picked that photo because I liked it, and other than not having my collar on at that moment, I think it represents me well. I feelContinue reading “Of Collars and Cages”
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You Could Swim in That
In the beginning, Tripp was impressed by how many times I could come in a day. It was not unusual for us to have sex two or three times per day, and my very reliable cock would rise to the occasion with startling rapidity. I could fuck him, get soft in his ass, then getContinue reading “You Could Swim in That”
Bi the Way…
I was at a pan-sexual leather bdsm event a few years ago with Sir. He was giving a class on cock and ball torture and I was his demonstration object. He went over a number of techniques and culminated the class by giving out leather laces for people to practice tying up balls (mostly mine).Continue reading “Bi the Way…”
Locked for Life
For most of my adult life, my dick (like most guys) was the center of my sexual universe. As a Top, I was very focused on my dick, using my dick, and having my dick pleased. I could be a very selfish top, which the boys I played with generally wanted. I tended to lookContinue reading “Locked for Life”
The Pandemic Dominance
Tripp and I have been dancing around truly becoming a D/s couple with me as the s. We’ve been slowly heading there over the last year, but things have moved quickly the last few weeks, and I have little doubt that the fact we are in lock down has played a major role. If there’sContinue reading “The Pandemic Dominance”
He called me boy
Last night was another date night. I dressed for dinner in my full body harness, vest, leather pants, and boots. Tripp put my steel collar on me. We had a lovely dinner. I like dressing for Tripp. I feel sexy and I like it when he locks the heavy collar around my neck. Plus, inContinue reading “He called me boy”
Electrosex
I love electrosex. It’s one of my favorite kinks. I have a nice set up that I’ve used many times on boys (it’s got a remote control and everything!!). I also love having it used on me. Luckily, my Master is quite fond of it as well. He has a very fancy set up. TheContinue reading “Electrosex”
I’m calling Shenanigans
I read an article about the rise of the leather scene. The author claimed that gay men began wearing leather gear because it was “hyper-masculine” and a response to the view that gay men were effeminate. It argued it arose from motorcycle gangs and was meant to intimidate. Bullshit. It’s arguably masculine, but I don’tContinue reading “I’m calling Shenanigans”
New Boots
I’ve always wanted a pair of Paul Bond cowboy boots. I think they’re stunning, but they’re also expensive. I’ve looked at them and drooled over them for years. For whatever reason, the fates aligned and I happened to look on eBay and there they were; brand new, exactly as I would have designed them, myContinue reading “New Boots”
Trading Spaces
I’m the submissive partner (sexually) in our relationship, as readers are probably aware. I haven’t always been and my submissive role in my marriage is new(ish) and happened out of a need to recreate our marriage. However, I didn’t go from Dom to sub overnight. You can’t change who you are on a whim. I’veContinue reading “Trading Spaces”
