I’m calling Shenanigans

I read an article about the rise of the leather scene. The author claimed that gay men began wearing leather gear because it was “hyper-masculine” and a response to the view that gay men were effeminate. It argued it arose from motorcycle gangs and was meant to intimidate. Bullshit. It’s arguably masculine, but I don’tContinue reading “I’m calling Shenanigans”

New Boots

I’ve always wanted a pair of Paul Bond cowboy boots. I think they’re stunning, but they’re also expensive. I’ve looked at them and drooled over them for years. For whatever reason, the fates aligned and I happened to look on eBay and there they were; brand new, exactly as I would have designed them, myContinue reading “New Boots”

Trading Spaces

I’m the submissive partner (sexually) in our relationship, as readers are probably aware. I haven’t always been and my submissive role in my marriage is new(ish) and happened out of a need to recreate our marriage. However, I didn’t go from Dom to sub overnight. You can’t change who you are on a whim. I’veContinue reading “Trading Spaces”

Hands Free

Chastity has been slowly rewiring my brain in the most unexpected way. In the last few months, I’ve started to have orgasms without any penile stimulation. I guess when one pathway is closed, our very plastic brains find a new one. I haven’t had an orgasm without direct stimulation since my very first one asContinue reading “Hands Free”

Missing Sir

It’s been a little while since I’ve been able to see Sir, and it seems it will be a while yet until I can again. I miss feeling His power. I miss His scent. I miss His cock. I miss His come. But protecting Sir and my loved ones (and everyone else) is my numberContinue reading “Missing Sir”

The Day it Got Real

At the beginning of my full time chastity journey, I always kept a key with me, just in case. I never used it, but having it in my pocket was reassuring. While I was locked, I knew I could unlock at anytime if I needed. Just knowing I could made it easier for me. ItContinue reading “The Day it Got Real”

Tripp Speaks to Secrets

So, when I write that I might ask Tripp something, I realize (now) that I am actually asking. Tripps’s response to my thoughts at the end of the last post: I absolutely won’t consider serving a Top with Doc as he will be bound and gagged in the corner like a good Cuck should theContinue reading “Tripp Speaks to Secrets”