I’ve got two anniversaries coming up. At the end of this month, Tripp and I will have been married for 7 years. At the end of next month, I’ll have been permanently locked for 2 years. Both have something in common; I wish I had done them sooner. Tripp and I wanted to get married for years before we were able to. I asked him to marry me several years before we could. I’ve wanted to be locked for years before I finally asked him to as well.

I love my husband more than I can say. I also love my cage more than I can express. I have to admit, I’ve wanted to be locked longer than I’ve wanted to be married. My chastity journey started more than 20 years ago. My boyfriend/Daddy at the time would make me come almost daily (we were young and in love), but he occasionally would make me wait for days before I could come. He liked having me wait, and I liked waiting. We didn’t have a device and what was available was crude by today’s standards, but that was my introduction to chastity play.

It was Sir who started locking me more regularly. Getting a cage on was a challenge because the thought of it made me hard instantly. But Sir is nothing if not persistent, so I was locked whenever I was with Him. He would also have me self-lock and drop the keys off at His house several days before a session. I gradually spent more time locked over the years. I also purchased numerous devices, searching for “the one” that was both secure and comfortable enough for long term wear. I must admit I was always proud of being locked and I loved the look and feel of my cock in a cage. Just like my previous relationship, I’d spend several days chaste before having sex with Sir, which always made me even more eager to serve Him well.

I wish I had been able to marry Tripp sooner and I wish I had asked Tripp to lock me sooner, but I was the Top in our relationship for many years. However, we did have a number of years after we were married that things had changed enough for Tripp physically that I wasn’t able to do that anymore. I could have asked him far earlier than I did, but hey, I did finally ask.

Other than occasionally swapping devices and hair removal, I haven’t really seen or touched my dick in almost 2 years. I haven’t masturbated in almost 2 years. My orgasms are given to me, I don’t give them to myself. I haven’t had an actual blow job since I’ve been locked and I have fucked someone (Tripp) exactly once in the past 2 years (I’m not counting pegging, just actual dick insertion). I’ve come rarely. In fact, if I add the 235 days I didn’t come last year and the recent 100 days, well, it’s almost a year without an orgasm right there. I’ve had 20 orgasms in the last 2 years and only one was uncaged. Before I was locked, I probably had 20 orgasms in less than 2 weeks.

I have much to be grateful for. I have the love a of good man, a wonderfully sadistic Sir, and I have an amazing cage on my dick, among many other blessings. We’ve certainly faced many trials and tribulations over the years, but those things have been touchstones for me. I’m looking forward to many more anniversaries.


Published by Locked Doc

Middle aged switch reclaiming his kink and exploring Bdsm with both his husband and his Master. Always locked.

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