Last week marked 4 years of being “permanently” locked. Time really does fly. My chastity adventure started (gulp) 30 years ago. I was locked on occasion and I locked several boys. I played on and off with it for a long time, until my former Sir wanted me locked and I asked Trip, to which he readily agreed. I think that marks the true start of my journey.
I knew I needed a better cage than I had at that time to make it work. I tried a few less expensive “custom” options, but they never really worked for me and “off the shelf” was a no go as well. With the help of @dualdrew. I quickly got locked in werks and haven’t looked back since. For me, it’s the only cage that allowed that dream to come true.
It’s been an interesting journey, with much gained and some things lost. In the past four years I had uncaged sex once, when Trip wanted me in him. He hasn’t wanted the flesh since then. I haven’t had a blow job since being locked (and I can’t see me ever receiving one again). I have become much more attuned to my ass as a pleasure source and love being penetrated far more than I used to. I’m also in a fairly constant state of arousal, although that has decreased with time somewhat. I’m also much more eager to provide pleasure to others than to myself, though I receive immense pleasure that way.
I used to come a lot. If I wasn’t having sex, I’d jerk. When we first locked me. I had more orgasms (caged, of course). But the denial has increased significantly over the years, and I haven’t been allowed to cum for a very long time. Having the desire without the ability is such a massive turn on that I find it far more pleasurable. And a good teasing session is something I always look forward to. I find I can orgasm on occasion from other stimulation, which amazes me. They are truly the best orgasms to have if I’m allowed to have one. Shooting in your cage from being fucked or having your balls worked feels incredible. I haven’t had an uncaged orgasm since 2018.
I’m at the point where I don’t have a cock. I have a metal piss tube. That part of my anatomy is off limits to me, and I honestly don’t even think of the fleshy bits much anymore. I only see the fleshy bits on rare occasions when the cage is removed for cleaning and I get the hair removed. Personally, I think locked men look better without pubes, and it certainly is more comfortable. It also reinforces my submissive side. Shaved pubes and a locked cock really screams “submissive” to me.
The journey will continue as far as I’m concerned. My desire for it has only increased with time, though I do admit to occasionally wishing I could just grab my cock and stroke. It feels good, but I’d feel very guilty if that were to ever happen. Trip can always use the contents if he wants, but I’m not sure I can even get hard without the cage anymore. The only time my unlocked cock gets hard is when I’m trying to put the cage back on 😉.
I’m currently the “owner” of 3 Steelwerks devices, all of which evoke different feelings when worn. I don’t generally choose which I’m locked in. I love them all, but the anatomic cage is and always will be my home. It’s fun to switch it up on occasion though. I’m currently in the schandemask which is attached to the base ring. It’s the shortest cage I have, and it’s also the tightest around the shaft. It’s larger around the head, which makes any attempt at stimulation a massive failure. It definitely feels more of a constricting device than the others.
The community of locked men has exploded over the years. At the very beginning, I didn’t know anyone else who was locked. The interwebs has changed all that. I hardly know anyone who isn’t now. It’s amazing. I always thought my fetish was niche, but it’s definitely not. I’ve also made some amazing friends and found incredible mentors. I feel truly blessed. I’m still uncomfortable talking about my sexuality. One of the reasons I write is that I can say things here I otherwise would stumble over verbally. I’ve always been this way. I’m jealous of people who are more comfortable in their own skin.
It hardly seems that I was locked away 4 years ago. I wish it had happened sooner, in fact. But it’s never too late to start. I knew it was right for me when the very first cage went on, even if that cage was uncomfortable and even mildly dangerous. Here’s to the next 4 years, and the 4 years after that.